Story #22: A St Stephen's family - the Remfrys, during WW1.
The St Stephen’s Honour Roll records two fallen brothers, George and Henry Remfry, born to Sarah and Thomas Remfry, from 105 Layton (now Church) street Camperdown.
Their eldest son Pte George joined the 1st Australian Pioneer Battalion in 1914, was shot at Pozières and died in the Casualty Clearing Station on 19 Aug 1916 aged 21.
REMFRY. — Died of wounds in France, George W. Remfry,
the dearly loved son of Mr. and Mrs. T. A. Remfry,
Camperdown. Sadly missed.
Tragically, his father died not long after, aged just 49.
REMFRY. — February 14, 1917, at his residence,
105 Layton-street (Church-street), Camperdown,
Thomas Alexander Remfry, senr., dearly loved husband
of Sarah Bennett Remfry, in his 49th year.
Mrs. S. REMFRY and FAMILY, of 105 Layton-street, Camperdown,
return very sincere THANKS to all kind friends and relations
for telegrams, letters, cards, and expressions of sympathy,
also Rev, Mr. Short, of St. Stephen’s C. of E., Newtown,
for his kind attention in their sad loss of husband and father.*
George’s brother, Henry, joined the 2nd Australian Pioneer Battalion aged 19 in 1914 and two years later was awarded the Military Medal:
On 1st August 1916 in Sausage Valley (Pozières) one of a party dropped a Mills Bomb with the pin out. Corporal Renfrey (sic) promptly rushed up and kicked the bomb away, followed it up and attempted to kick it further, when it exploded and severely injured him. Action probably saved many others.
Wounded several times and promoted to Lance Sergeant, he was killed in May 1917: “we were digging a sap right in front of Bullecourt and at night a shell exploded. A mate and I buried him in a shell hole. It would be almost impossible for the grave to be traced as the ground was knocked about too badly.” - Witness A. Stephens, A Coy.
In 2014 Sarah Remfry’s granddaughter, Kris, contacted St Stephen’s, Newtown after reading details about the Honour Roll on the church website. She wrote:
“Sarah Remfry was my grandmother. My mother Alva Remfry was the youngest child of the Remfry family and Henry (known as Harry) and George were my uncles. It is true that my grandmother lost her husband and two sons within a year. I especially thank you for the image of your Church roll of honour board - this is a treasure I didn’t know about. You may be interested to know that a third Remfry brother went to the Western Front - William Arthur - and he was sent home when his two brothers died. A single act of humanity in the midst of that horror.” - By Graham Dowden
References: Commonwealth War Graves, National Archives of Australia, Trove.
· SMH Saturday, February 24, 1917. page 12
· SMH Saturday, June 2, 1917. page 12